A Blogging Home Away from Home

Over at The League of Ordinary Gentlemen, co-founder Mark Thompson has a great post up which covers the history of the site from January 2009 to present. I was honored to be included in the post and as a sort of blogging ‘thank you’ to both the contributors and commentariat at The League I thought I would put a piece together.

First, a little background. I discovered politics on the web through chatboards. From 2004-2007 I spent time at a site that had a diverse and interesting membership. This is where I cut my teeth and sharpened my debating skills. In mid-2007 the site’s membership began to suddenly decline and by that autumn there were only five of us and we were talking in circles most of the time. Hungry for more challenging conversations I started looking for another site that had a larger and more active membership. This lead me to another chatboard which clearly slanted leftward. My opening salvo was ill-advised and over the next month I was public-enemy #1. In December of 2007 I was forced off of that site by the moderators.

In January 2008 I began blogging. The medium appealed to me instantly because I controlled my site. I wasn’t at the mercy of someone else and I could steer the ship in whatever direction my thoughts took me. Over the next 15 months I built a small readership and began to reach out to other bloggers who I admired. I took a lot of pleasure from forming these relationships because the blogging community seemed much more friendly and much less tribal (I realize this sounds a bit naive now but I still believe it to a large degree). What I never thought was that I would seek out and join another single-site community, especially one that was owned by someone else.

Enter the League of Ordinary Gentlemen.

I was fortunate enough to stumble upon the League at just the right time. It was in the early days when the writers were still trying a unique model of ‘series format’ posting. It blew me away because the conversations were so intelligent, so diverse and so polite. At the same time another phenomenon was happening which was equally exciting. The League’s commentariat was developing into a genuine community. I’m honored to have played a minor role in these early days. At that time I was still enthusiastically pushing my own brand of progressive conservatism and I found a group of people that were interested in looking at issues from new angles. This seemed like a perfect match and in the last 2+ years it hasn’t disappointed.

Mark’s piece does a far better job of discussing the evolution of the site than I ever could have. I’ve guest-posted there several times and having my byline on the League’s front page remains one of my proudest writing achievements.  Watching some of my fellow guest-posters become official League members is akin to playing minor league ball and watching your teammates get called up to the big leagues. You feel honored for having been there to watch it (and maybe just a little envious).

As much as I love the posts at the League for me the best part remains the commenters. This group is what keeps me coming back day after day. For the most part they defy definition. Just when you think you have one of them pegged they will make a comment that is so 180 degrees from what you thought they would say that you find yourself wondering if it’s the same person. I love that feeling because it keeps me on my toes and forces me to never assume. I still feel woefully out of depth discussing many subjects with this group. We’ve never laid our academic credentials on the table but I suspect it would be an exercise that would leave  me feeling very inadequate. I do my best to hang with conversations and I hope I occasionally say something smart.

At this time I guess it’s appropriate to raise my digital glass to the League. Thank you so much everyone for making me believe that a civil internet community is still possible and letting me join in the fun.

Anger Turns to Violence

Megan McArdle covers the recent escalation in tactics from the Occupy crowd.

As you may have heard by now, this weekend, at the Americans for Prosperity dinner (a group with which the . . . sigh . . . Kochs are affiliated), Occupy DC decided that it would be a good idea to blockade the attendees into the DC convention center. The video is pretty disturbing to me:

I wish I could say this is unsurprising but it isn’t. The Occupy movement coalesced around anger as the primary motivating emotion…and this is never a healthy organizing force. It also seems that as media coverage has declined they have abandoned their peaceful park sit-ins and are becoming much more aggressive. The video Megan links to is telling. Physically blocking people’s movement is ridiculous. Then of course they also play the victim if the people they are harassing lash out. Classic bullying tactic.

On a completely partisan note I will also note that we never saw anything like this from the Tea Party which is why they have had the longevity that Occupy will certainly not enjoy. McArdle makes an equally partisan note about the hypocrisy of those that ignore these latest actions:

I have no doubt that support for these tactics is a minority sentiment on the left. But where are the condemnations that our left-wing commentariat were so eagerly demanding from the right a year ago every time Michelle Bachmann or another tea party figure said something stupid?

Bringing guns to political rallies is pretty stupid and was condemned accordingly (although I will note that to my knowledge no one has ever been physically assaulted at a Tea Party rally).  I really don’t see the actions of Occupy as any different.

TV Terminology

 

Anticipating a long and successful run for AMC’s ‘The Walking Dead’ I would like to coin a phrase today that I hope will enter pop culture jargon. The phrase is:

Zombie in the well

Going forward this phrase will be used to identify any plot points which involve the survivors putting themselves in harm’s way unnecesarily.

I will expect citations accordingly. Thank you, that is all.

 

Tips for a Stress and Guilt-Free Hunting Season

Get your home in order

Shut down the yard for the winter. Lawn mowed, weeds trimmed, patio furniture and hoses put away. Winterize your home inside and out. Fix the things that need to be fixed. Buy salt for the driveway, make sure your generator and snow blower are working and cover your exterior faucets.

De-stress Your Work Life

If you can get caught up or ahead at work, do so now. Put in for those hunting-related vacation days if you haven’t already and have a list for the new year ready when Jan 1 rolls around. Dazzle your boss during the summer so he will get off your back during the winter. Clean out your email and make sure your Inbox is at zero every Friday when you go home.

Get plenty of sleep

Listen to your body. I only hunt afternoons and evenings on Sundays because that is my sleep-in day. If you’re hunting early on Saturday – it’s amazing how good a nap feels that afternoon.

 Take care of your gear

Clean your gun. Wash your hunting clothes. Wipe the mud off of your calls. Take care of your gear and it will take care of you.

Get your auto in good shape

Make sure all maintenance is current. Put on new wiper blades. Put on snow tires (if necessary). Keep a tow strap in the trunk. Put a $2 painter’s drop cloth in the trunk. Spread it out when the dog is extra muddy or you’re about to put a dead deer in the same place that the wife puts her groceries.

Keep your gear organized

This is a big one for me because I hunt several different animals during the winter. I like to know all of my upland gear (including shells) is together and likewise for my deer accessories, waterfowl equipment, etc. I accomplish this with simple 5-gallon buckets. I label each bucket for what goes in it and then the gear all gets stowed away for the next time. Items that I use for multiple game animals go in a separate ‘General’ bucket.

Respect the ‘honey-do’ list

One of the most important tips. If you keep up with your chores around the house (including changing diapers and handling bath time for those of you with younger kids) it’s amazing what your spouse will tolerate. Fall behind and you might be spending a prime weekend painting your guest room.

Variety is the spice of life

Hunting fatigue will sneak up on you. I fight it off by switching gears frequently and trying new stuff. A late-season dove hunt and squirrel hunting in the snow helped break up the goose hunting grind last year.

Have a Weekly Routine

Usually Sunday nights are when I’m getting ready for the work week so during hunting season I usually designate an hour every Monday evening to get my gear squared away. I dump the stuff that needs to be washed in the dirty clothes pile and re-organize my equipment for the next weekend.

Take Care of Your Pooch

Dogs get worn out during hunting season too, especially in cold weather or when covering a lot of ground. Feed them high-quality food as much as possible (fresh meat, vegetables and high-end dog food). Also, don’t feel bad about leaving them home once in a while. They will be upset for about 5 minutes and then they will go back to bed. Keep them warm in cold weather and cut your hunt short when they start to show signs of too much cold exposure.

Don’t forget your family

We’ve all heard the term ‘hunting widow’. This phenomenon is a symptom of a hunter who doesn’t have his priorities straight. Let’s remember folks – your spouse or significant other is like your rear echelon. They often do your laundry and keep the kids quiet while dad naps after a cold day afield. It’s your job to show your appreciation. Make sure you give them at least 50% of your weekend most of the time and if you need more, you owe them a good dinner or a movie (or both). Our simple rule at home is pretty much whenever I am not hunting or sleeping on the weekends during hunting season – I am at my wife’s disposal. That means errands and the dreaded trips to Target if need be – but in the return I get all the time in the field I need. It’s win-win.

The Reality of Paying for College

So a lot of people have been talking about a picture from 53% that has been making the internet rounds where the person holding the sign claims to be about to graduate from college debt-free. Support for this concept and deep skepticism seems to fall pretty much along party lines.

Democratic operative Ames writes that:

…the anonymous subject of a popularly circulated Facebook picture, who claims to be “about to graduate completely debt free” based only on her own hard work, is either lying, or has rich parents. 

While I had been told in 2008 that the Left was about hope it seems to be more about deep pessimism these days. But maybe there is a reason. Let’s look at he specifics. Ames attended Rice University and NYU Law School. Both prestigious and appropriately expensive.

Rice – $34,900 per school year

NYU – $31,536 per school year

Now I don’t know Ames’ specifics but I imagine he got some serious financial aid because he’s a bright guy. Even then, it seems like the tuition bill was probably still pretty high and he presumably borrowed a lot or ‘has rich parents’. But maybe there are other options. I didn’t borrow AND I didn’t have rich parents so I went the community college route. I attended Jefferson Community College for all of my basics. JCC’s current tuition is currently $3,240 per school year. This contrasts with the University of Louisville where I finished up my degrees. UL is currently at $11,040 per school year.

So we have some options here:

Rice University – $34,900

University of Louisville – $11,040

Jefferson Community College – $3,240

The first one would be a no-go for me. The second one would be tight without parental help or grant money and the third one is completely doable with money to spare. Sock away the extra savings and you’ve got a nest egg for the last two years of increased tuition at a non-community college. Do like I did and work two jobs and it gets even easier.

I’m not saying that paying for college is easy. I have a daughter starting college next year and I’m terrified of the bills, but it’s neither impossible nor a lie, as Ames and others have claimed.

MMA: The Sting of Defeat

Regular readers know that I am a huge fan of the sport of mixed martial arts. Often we see videos that highlight the winners and the brightest moments of the sport. Recently UFC president Dana White released a behind-the-scenes look at the last fight card, UFC 136. Rather than celebrate the winners, this video blog focuses on the fighters that lost that night. It really does a great job of capturing the intense emotions that come with losing a fight you spent months preparing for. In some ways I am sure it is no different than the feelings many other athletes have when they lose an important game or match. In other ways this is much different. The sport is the ultimate test of single athlete against single athlete. No blaming a loss on teammates. No running from your own personal failures.  It is competition at its most pure.

Happy Birthday OBN!

As regular visitors to the site know, The Big Stick is a proud member of the Outdoor Blogger Network (OBN). This week they are celebrating their one-year birthday with all sorts of cool giveaways. OBN is a fantastic community for outdoor enthusiasts with a wide-range of blogs covering everything from skiing to hunting to camping to outdoor photography. If you like the outdoors – check it out. If you are an outdoor blogger, consider becoming a member.

 

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